You're right, but... Look at him at 09:15, how he's standing - that alpha male position, those tight, muscular buttocks... Won't you forgive him for that?
It seems not many gay men know what a "real" straight man is like. I agree with BurlyDad, this dude is problematic. But it's also a problem for HIM. Don't ever expect any affection from a man like that. But Cock and Disappointment often go hand in hand, don't they?